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Yaaaaas Gawd bish I been gone for a min now I’m back wit da jump off! 🙂


I’m trying to get it together yall, bear with me…ok, here we go…

I tell you the funniest things happen to me.

While I’m very honored that people feel comfortable in sharing their deepest, darkest ‘secrets’ with me, I have to say that sometimes even I can’t believe what I’m hearing.

Disclaimer: The following story is absolutely 100% true.  Serious up yall I cannot make this stuff up!  If you’re in any way prudish or can’t take a joke then this aint the post for you.

So…somebody told me once that they have the habit of falling alseep during sexual activity.  Yup, you heard me right.  Habit, meaning more than once.  Allow me to clarify what I mean specifically: she told me that she falls asleep while she’s giving him head…like habitually.  Yeah I know what yall thinking; yes she is ‘happily’ married and yes her husband is still with her and no he hasn’t knocked the shit outta her…to my knowledge.

I mean, serious up yall for real tho she told me she be snoring.  And she has no knowledge of this whatsoever!  0_0  I’m just like in amazement that she’s still alive, let alone married.  Yall know for a fact that the mens don’t play when it comes to getting the head.  I don’t know what’s worse tho, the fact that this happens, that she openly admits (to me anyways) that she has done this and still does this on several different occasions, or the fact that she actually laughs as if this shit is funny!  LLS! I cannot! Her husband is a very understanding and loving man, I’ve met him and he really does love her.  The life that is still in her body is a testament to this fact.

Maybe it’s just me, but this shit aint ok with me.  This don’t sit right wit me homes, this don’t sit right.  Even if you aren’t exactly the head enthusiast that your man wishes you would be, what about reciprocity?  What about wanting to make him feel good and bring him pleasure? I mean I told her how I felt and I explained this to her but it’s like its still funny to her.

Bless her heart.

I’m dying to know what yall think about this tho…am I wrong?  No judgement, but I know if the tables were turned…somebody would die! IJS…

Marinade for Grilled Steaks

Since it’s summer and I know how yall like to throw steaks on the grill 😉 I thought I’d give you a simple marinade you can use. It works well on every steak I’ve ever tried it on: flank, rib-eye, etc.


  • 1/2 c red wine (cabernet works well)
  • 1/2 c soy sauce
  • 2 tbsp minced garlic
  • 2 tbsp brown sugar
  • 2 tbsp blackening spice
  • 2 tbsp olive oil
  • 1 tbsp tomato paste
  • 1 tsp fresh ground pepper
  • 3lbs of steak, washed and

In a bowl, whisk all the ingredients together for the marinade.  Pour the contents into a zip top bag along with the steak.  Refrigerate for at least 3 hours before grilling.