Oh, hey girl I’m back.  

It’s been almost a year (wow) since I’ve posted anything to this site.  A lot’s happened during this time; mainly I had to throw myself into school so I could get this shit done.  So I went away for a while.  I needed to get my Ph.D. done and I just didn’t see it for anything else over this past year.  I was not in the best of places during this time chial…stress is something else!  I’m getting there though; I finally see the light at the end of the tunnel since I passed the comps [yay!] and am going back to working a regular 9 to 5 gig [*side eye].  So I’m hoping to be more regular with maintaining this blog- I do miss you guys.  Yes, even the ones who I can’t understand what the hell you’re trying to say to me in your comments/messages 😀

I always write posts, but I seldom publish them.  Frankly some of y’all couldn’t take me.  And apparently since I’ve been called the ‘Queen of Shade’ (you know who you are) I’ve decided that it would probably be best to keep some [most] things to myself.  I don’t think I’m shady, I just tell it like it is.  It’s so rare that you find people who are genuine and straight up with you nowadays that when most people do, they can’t handle it.  No coddling over here; if you scared go to church!

I guess this is to be considered my formal ‘re-launch’ of Cookin’ n Heels.  So consider this a warning; YOU READ THESE THINGS AT YOUR OWN RISK! I’m not here to intentionally offend, hurt, or belittle anyone but girl you can’t please everybody all the time.  Take all of this shit in stride because I sure am.  Sure, sometimes I’ll do more serious posts, but this is mostly my place to come and blow off some steam.  My day to day has gotten so serious and sometimes I’d just like to allow my inner hood rat to thrive.  

With that being said, feel free to like, comment, share, laugh, cry, cuss, dance, or whatever you feel you need to do.  You can ask me questions and I might answer them. Girl there’s so much I feel like I gotta catch yall up on!  Like I don’t even know where to start…